Asexuality and me
Mar. 14th, 2026 12:02 pmIt has been about 10 years since I realized I’m on the asexual spectrum, and it has … certainly been a journey. When I first realized I was ace spec, I was angry, sad, and bitter. Why did I have to be like this? Why can’t I be like other people? Why do I have to have something about me that automatically makes me unlovable to most romantic prospects?
These feelings weren’t helped by the fact that, at the time, I had a friend who was dating a shitty guy who was an asshole to everyone. Shitty Guy said a lot of cruel things to me about being ace spec, which still sometimes pops up in it head …
As time had gone on, I suppose I’ve become more accepting and resigned to my asexuality. But sometimes I still enter periods when I get sad about it. I’m in one of those periods now, unfortunately.
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These feelings weren’t helped by the fact that, at the time, I had a friend who was dating a shitty guy who was an asshole to everyone. Shitty Guy said a lot of cruel things to me about being ace spec, which still sometimes pops up in it head …
As time had gone on, I suppose I’ve become more accepting and resigned to my asexuality. But sometimes I still enter periods when I get sad about it. I’m in one of those periods now, unfortunately.
( Read more... )