Oh, Kaitan's totally a little shit. But she can get away with it, because Tuanada's got the patience of a saint and has learned how to have strong boundaries alongside that. He doesn't take much personally.

Yeah, it's rough, but it's also completely mundane in a way. Probably this happens more than people tend to admit; pushing youngsters into forming lifelong relationships too early means they don't always have the emotional awareness to work it out when someone isn't happy and doesn't know why!