Some of that does come up originally when they first meet, to be honest! Owen's got a lot of fondness for the kingdom in him, and though Bran's not originally an exile of it, she does have an outside perspective that at first gets on his nerves a lot.

Let's be real, you can be 30 or 300 and there are some people who are just going to startle you out of your comfort zone and make you analyze what's good, after a lot of huffing and puffing.